Never stop....

GM. I feel absolutely wonderful this morning.  I can contribute some of these feelings to knowing that I'll never stop. I'll never stop trying to be my best. I'll never stop trying to have all my heart desires. I'll never stop trying to make a difference for at least one person. It might not all work out when I want it to, but I'll NEVER STOP🤚🏾

Beautiful....

This morning is gorgeous. The sun is shining bright, but most of all I can see it with my own eyes. What a blessing. Thank you Father🙏🏾 We take so much for granted and worry about the small stuff. I thank God for all that He is and all that He does. Not long ago I read somewhere we should not thank God for what he's bringing us, but for what we already have. Not the exact words, but similar. If we didn't have what we do then we'd have that much more to complain about. I'm thankful for this day, this moment and all it entails. #Grateful🙏🏾

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Why do we question when good things start happening? Where this come from? Why now? What I do to deserve him/her? I guess because of the curve balls life constantly throw at us it seem like the typical reaction.  However, run with it.  My friend shared a video with me today of all these blessings God has stored away because we didn't accept them. We really need to forgive ourselves, discard of garbage we're holding onto, remove barriers we've placed out front in order to receive with open arms the blessings God so graciously has in store for us🙏🏾. 

I'm Baaaack.....

Haven't blogged in awhile, but I have started keeping a personal journal for myself.  Making some lifestyle changes and feeling better and better each day. Don't get me wrong because I'm fighting the devil with God by my side, temptation is a beast and I want mine in the end. I'm worth it and I deserve it.  No one can do it for me or you.  Now, I know it took an upcoming trip, disappointment and other things to make me get my butt in gear. However, the point is I'm doing it one day at a time. I realize as I speak to friends and family many are wanting and starting to make better choices. I want to be the best I can be and it takes plenty of work. I want to start back blogging consistently because I enjoy it. I enjoy communicating with people and sharing. Recently, I read "God Where Is My Boaz" and it too made me pause and think about changes I needed to make. My main goal is to put me first. No matter what I do or others ask of me I need to think about me in the process. I'm a nurturer and a fixer. This right here can be a blessing and a curse. I want God to continue using me how He sees fit in the name of Jesus. You don't know why sometimes your in a place or space, but it could be to help others. In the past couple of days for whatever reason I reached out to people I hadn't talked to in months. At the end of the conversation I got, "I don't know why you called, but thanks".  These individuals were going through something and needed someone at that time.  Maybe, it helped! I don't know, but I'm glad I could be there for them. Blessings 🙏🏾

Getting started....

I've always wanted to have a ladies gathering where we talk about anything and everything. I would so love to be at one of Oprah's Legends Ball or at least her luncheons. Anyway, we have some amazing women in our circle who I'm sure would love to express themselves or just be present. Women are beautiful creatures who I believe have special powers. I mean we can feed off one another's strength, learn form other's struggles, carry so much on our backs and not break, keep a family together and still maintain our beauty and poise. I'm going to work on this. I think many can gain so much when many of us gather in one place. 

Why?

Why are you mad at someone's situation when they're not? I always believe when the mind, body or soul get tired of something it will eventually release it, let it go. Although, it's hard watching someone self destruct especially when you care it will only end when THEY decide enough is enough. Do we care too much? Probably not. Do we adopt others feelings until it start impacting you? Probably so. When do WE let go so others can grow and realize they are so much more than their circumstances. More times than not people accept the abuse because they believe they are helping someone to overcome their short comings. You cannot save someone who doesn't want to be saved. They are not pets, so you alone cannot rescue them. Counseling and a support group whether it's family or an institution is needed. However, lets not forget prayer🙏🏾. Prayer is very powerful!

Recharge/Restart/Realize

Realize you must recharge your battery so you'll be able to restart a period in your life where you are mindfully and consciously aware of where you're trying to go. You need to package up the negativity, anger, and resentment and return to sender. Regain your power by using your energy to benefit YOU instead of gifting it to unworthy causes and people. Regrets take up too much space. Learn to forgive yourself, this will free your mind and cleanse your soul. 

No discrimination....

https://youtu.be/RURSc2xZJKk

Don't stay....

No matter if it's positive or negative people tend to stay in their same routine until there is either an interruption or you realize it's not where you want to be. How do you overcome a negative routine? Of course, everyone is different. But, I'm sure no matter your position it'll take plenty of work. It's like exercising by continuously working on a particular area. So, if it's your emotions or the physical focus on improving and being healthy. Healthy is not just physical but a combination of mental, emotional, physical, spiritual and in some cases financial.  Most times people don't think to include financial, however, it's one of the main contenders when trying to improve the quality of life. It's a domino effect and if one is out of balance it throws everything else off. Find your center, get and stay focused. I know, easier said than done.  -#determination #consistency #getitdone

Give thanks🙏🏾

Everyday is a holiday when you're alive to give thanks. Granted we pay homage to Religious and Federal holidays mainly because it's what we're taught. But, everyday is a gift and we don't need a calendar to celebrate life. For the Religious and Federal holidays learn their true meaning instead of just following an annual ritual. The history and chain of events which made these holidays come to be will undoubtedly change how you feel. They'll either enhance your appreciation or erase a preconceived notion.  

Trivia~

Which come first, New Year or Christmas?

The egg or the chicken?

Pay attention....

Be aware of your surroundings because there's possibly a message out there meant for you. Be observant and listen to your gut. Hopefully, you'll be saved from a negative experience. Maybe, you'll see or hear something you previously rejected, but now understand it could improve your quality of life. Not all events you encounter are meant for you to act on. They could be there for you to know there are options. Sometimes in our path are things we choose to ignore or continue to be in denial about. We need to acknowledge there are situations we encounter simply to advance us to the next stage.

Embrace life, learn from mistakes, plan for success, stay positive and reach for a better tomorrow. It's yours for the taking.

 #attainable #livelife #courage

Tick Tock....

As long as you get there it's all good. Things might not come or happen in the time you like, but as long as you continue your persuit in getting somewhere you're not too late. We put these ridiculous timelines on ourselves and it's too much pressure. Things will happen when they're supposed to. "The Pursuit of Happyness", no journey is more deserving, rewarding or fulfilling. Continue to work on pleasing yourself. Be happy with who YOU are and if you're not then make a change. If your not happy with or loving youself wholly then you cannot be your all for someone else. You mustn't expect more than you're able to deliver. If you want the best, then be your best. Peoples standards vary in what's "perfect".  But, as long as it's perfect for you that's all that matter. 

Brush it off....

Things don't always go as planned, but it's o.k.  Start over again until you get it right. Many times we'd like to give up, but it's not an option. Only God is perfect and we're a work in progress. Yes, you might think you've failed, but as long as you keep trying then know you haven't failed. When things appear to be coming together keep on trying. There's always room for improvement. Remember, nothing is perfect except God. That means keep pushing, keep trying, keep working to improve and if you stumble along the way brush it off and keep it moving. Stop being so hard on yourself and know you're allowed to make mistakes. After all, we're not perfect. But, we can improve. 

Tony,Toni, Tone....

It feels good, yeah!

https://youtu.be/ULGzj0iRaXg

Doing something for no reason and expecting nothing in return is so rewarding and fulfilling. I enjoy volunteering or doing something for someone just because. However, I'm working on my attitude towards people who do ask for something. But, if I can help anyone I honestly do my best. Through it all I feel good about myself and don't need or ask anyone to tell me I'm doing a good job. Point--- start doing something just because and experience an amazing feeling. #gratification

Following the rules....

When is it okay to change the rules? We've learned certain behaviors from our parents and life experiences and tend to stick by them. But, those rules were made in a different era. Times have changed, the mentality has changed and the rules should change. Or, not! I'm not saying let go of your morales and values but I think we should entertain change. Listen, if we're still playing by the rules from 20 or 30 years ago it simply mean we have not evolved and grown to the next level. How can we plan on keeping with the times if we continue living in the past?  IJS

Have you heard....

"You can't choose your family, but you can choose your friends".  I wouldn't trade my family or friends for anything. Well.... Just joking! No one is perfect and many times they ARE giving you their best. Although, their best might not be what you want it's ok. Love and cherish them anyway.  We are individuals with our own personalities, strengths and weaknesses. If you want everything and everyone to be the same just continue to look in the mirror. Accept one another for who they are and if not, distance yourself. It's more your issue than theirs, because more times than not, they're fine with who they are. Tomorrow isn't promised and we don't know our future. Would you rather have them in your life or have a day when you can no longer talk, laugh or hug or even disagree? Let go of the things which don't seem so important anymore and enjoy time together. Have a blessed day🙏🏾

Really...

It's not all bad. Some days are better than others, but thank God for another day. Work on making tomorrow a better day. Don't dwell on the negatives or what could have been. Focus on how you're going to ensure you improve. Tomorrow isn't promised, but if you're fortunate enough to be blessed with one more day make the most out of it. Many aren't aware they might not wake up tomorrow. By the grace of God He will have mercy and allow us to partake in one more day. Then another. And, another. Don't take it for granted and waste time engaging in BS. Be strong, be gracious, be proud, be the best, be productive and most of all be happy. For tomorrow isn't promised, but what a joy to be granted one more day. Thank you Jesus🙏🏾

Surprise....

You never know what impact a kind word or gesture will have on you or someone else. Yes, there are some very rude, obnoxious, self-absorbed, selfish (Oops! I got carried away) people in this world. But, there's no charge for being considerate, kind, respectful, courteous and simply polite to one another. Actually, it shouldn't surprise you when a stranger speaks for no reason, when a co-worker holds the elevator for you, when a fellow coffee drinker buys you a java or when someone walks up and give you a hug. STOP!!! Yes, be alarmed if someone you don't know walks up and hug you.  All joking aside if we can't love one another at least be kind. It means more than you know.  Keeping it 💯

I apologize....

How do you feel when you genuinely apologize to someone and know they didn't sincerely accept it? We all make mistakes and grant it, mistakes are painful. But, aren't we supposed to forgive? Don't get me wrong, if someone keeps making the same mistake and apologizing for it, the apology doesn't hold the same weight.  Hopefully, we all know when an apology is honest and the person has sincere regret. Do you think an apology isn't accepted because the person on the receiving end also have a cross to bear in the situation? When do you forgive yourself for making bad judgement in hurting someone? Well, pray about it. Don't allow man to hold power over you because you made a mistake. Only God can grant you redemption. 🙏🏾 When you ask for forgiveness from someone do you turn around and ask God to forgive you? Well, I believe if we did it would allow us to forgive ourselves much quicker.  IJS... no sense in carrying around a mistake on your back, no matter how big or small, when you can certainly ask for forgiveness from God and know He will accept it in Jesus name. 🙏🏾

A message....

Today in church the Bishop said something that made me sit straight up. "How do you expect God to bless you with something bigger if you're not even doing your best with what you have." Bishop Edwards

Truth~

Although, we may not like our present situation we must do the best we can. Be thankful, grateful and appreciative for what you have. Respect it! Trust and believe it could be a lot worse. There are many with much less but work their hardest to obtain better. What we do, we should do unto God, not man. For it is God who will bless you with what your heart desire. It is God who has brought you this far. We must try and try, over and over, everyday and every night to be the best and do the best we can.

Give it your all and expect better. 

Seasons....

Many people look for the winter season to combat germs. Recognize and acknowledge we go through seasons other than Spring, Winter, Fall and Summer. Life changes and sometime we are prepared and other times not so much. I believe your mentality and actions play a significant role in how you will move through your personal season. Although, things might not tend to bend your way at the moment shouldn't be a reason for you to think negatively. Positive energy will assist in your receptiveness of the events taking place.  Faith will sustain you🙏🏾

Thoughts....

Take time to analyze what's on your mind. All thoughts come from someplace. If you keep having the same thought, take notice and understand where it's coming from. Now, those negative thoughts should be thrown away. They take up too much space and too much energy. Focus on the positive, concentrate on your plan (you have one, Right??) and decide the best course of action in seeing that your goals and dreams are fulfilled. You know what they say about an idle mind so ensure all your thoughts are  of substance.  Peace✌🏾 

Keep trying....

How do you find balance with so much going on? Life happens and there is no perfect solution or magical formula to make it all work. It takes being persistent and dedicated to continually working on finding balance. Don't allow your goals  to get lost in the everyday shuffle of juggling the things on your list(s) and the obstacles that creep in when you least expect it. If it doesn't work out, keep trying. If it didn't go exactly as planned, keep trying. If you received a surprise along the way, blink and keep it moving. "Nothing beats a failure but a try" R.J. Smith. 

I Am Woman....

Zoom, zoom....

You know many things we endure is because we brought it on ourselves. Now, I'm not saying it was right or wrong. IJS... a lot of it is from our own doing. But, whatever the outcome at the time we believed it was the right thing to do. I don't believe it's beneficial or even necessary to beat ourselves up about it because at this point, it is what it is. Live life. Stop sweating the smaill stuff. Recognize the BS. And, keep it moving.

Caution....

Be careful what you wish for. Be specific and know exactly what you want. Don't leave anything out and don't settle. Yes, there are somethings or someone you feel has great potential. But, know the difference between the possibilities and the opportunities. Just because the opportunity is there doesn't mean it is meant for you. The backdraft of throwing caution to the wind might prove to be something you didn't expect. Believe what you see and respect the feeling in your gut telling you it's not right. But, be prepared for when your gut tell you the prospect is right in front of you. Grab it! Snatch it! Trust it! 

Not today....

Nor tomorrow! When you feel the odds are against you. When you feel as though you made a mistake. Learn from these errors, become stronger because of them. Don't be defeated or disheartened. Work on you, work on the situation, work on being and doing better. Trouble don't last always. Believe it! Trust it! Live it!

Anonymous....

" Think Before You Speak". 

     CHOOSE CAREFULLY

A careless word may kindle strife; 

A cruel word may wreck a life,

A bitter word may hate instill; 

A brutal word may smite and kill.

A gracious word may smooth the way; 

A joyous word may light the day,

A timely word may lesson stress

A loving word may heal and bless.

Speak Kind words  to all this week.

Trust and believe....

Remember...

Sometimes when you're not your best remember the difficult times when He carried you. Stabilized you. Strengthened you. Kept you. Saved you. At times when you know you could've been a little nicer, a bit more patient, less selfish just remember. Remember when He guided you, spoke to you, gave you another pass. Just remember none of us are perfect and we're bound to make mistakes over and over. But, try not to continue to make the same mistakes. Remember when He forgave you. Let's excercise forgiveness of our family, friends, neighbors, enemies, strangers and for all mankind. Honestly, forgiveness is so much lighter than carrying around anger and hatred. Hey, it's your back! Decide if you're strong enough to carry so much or stronger by letting go. 

Work It....

If you want to achieve success the work must be done. If you want a positive outcome then going in with a positive mind is the first step. If you want a mate with the characteristics of what God intended then working on oneself first is key. If you want to accomplish and reach your goals and dreams start building a solid and secure foundation. If want what you thought wouldn't be attainable prayer is a definite. If you want a peaceful, prosperous, purposeful life seek the almighty. We can do all things in Christ who strengthens us. #FAITH #BELIEVE 

It's all relevant....

Never allow anyone to make you believe who they are or what they do is more important than you offer. Your thoughts, your feelings, your opinion, your voice all matters. You matter! Continue to show the world you have purpose. 

Grab it!!!!!

When something is going well for you don't question it. Just grab it and don't let go. We are faced with so many uncertainties that when the unexpected happens we sometime question the chain of events. Stop dissecting everything and appreciate providence smiling on you. We are responsible for our own actions and happiness. Stop relying on others to make you smile, make you happy or determine your destiny. Take a strong hold onto the gifts and blessings God is bestowing upon you and say, "thank you"!🙏🏾

Psalm 28:7

The LORD is my strength and my shield; my heart trusted in him, and I am helped: therefore my heart greatly rejoiceth; and with my song will I praise him.

Call me....

When you feel down, call a friend. When you feel defeated, call God. 🙏🏾

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The unexpected. The unknown.  The challenges. The obstacles. The what ifs. The should've, could've, would've. That's life! Don't beat yourself up worrying about yesterday or what didn't go right today. Don't even worry about tomorrow because it'll take care of itself. All I can say is PRAY🙏🏾 Pray as if your life depends on it because it does. There are many things we don't have control over. It is what it is. Have no regrets as plans change. Just 🙏🏾

Be Still...

Time stands still for no man and life continues to move and evolve around us no matter what you're going through. There will be times when you feel as if you're in a storm with no way out. But, if you can be still long enough to allow God to be your shield and handle the situation the storm will shift into a new direction. The past few days I keep hearing in my mind, "Late in the midnight hour God's going to turn it around".  #TRUST #FAITH #BeSTILL

Let's do our part....

Soon we'll be paying tribute to the legacy of the Reverand Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.  who challenged us to do right. But, what are you doing? I think most people read about the good that has been done by others and support their mission and dedication. However, can you look in the mirror and say you are doing something to continue making the world a better place? Or, is it all smoke. Let's do our part so the struggles and sacrifices of the many people who fought and the ones who continue to fight for our freedom and equality is not in vain. 

Be strong....

There are times in our lives when we will be knocked down, slid under the bus with no Vaseline, and at times make you question everything that is. But, don't you remember the last time that happened and you made it through? It's not the first, probably won't be the last and you're still standing. With God's grace and mercy we will not be defeated. 🙏🏾

Be thankful.....

Don't be envious of what others have. Don't allow jealousy to consume you.  Don't have regrets for what could've been. 

Don't worry about yesterday, but instead concentrate on making today better. 

Don't hate!

Don't keep repeating the same mistakes. Live for every precious moment. Cherish the little things as they mean so much. Appreciate what you do have. Respect all that surrounds you. Create the environment you want to live in. Decide what's best for YOU!

In life everything is relative, but it might not all be meant for you. 

Find your balance, stay focused, be determined to win the fight. 

Thank God for another chance to get it right. 

Don't forget...

Often times life happens and we forget some things we've started. But, try not to forget about YOU! It's important to know your worth and that you come first, no matter what. Continue to grow, build your portfolio, improve yourself, chase your dreams and reach your goals. This is an activity that will take much work. But, life happens. Maybe, create some kind of reminder to reflect back on what you started and what you are in the process of completing. Don't quit because life happens.