Lately, there has been an overwhelming online interest in other people’s relationships. I follow Blair Nash, Derrick Jaxn, Black Love Doc (who now has a a dating app), Stephan Speaks and Paul Brunson. I find others stories quite interesting to listen to, but I also find the response from these coaches interesting. What satisfaction, if any, do you get out of reading these posts? It’s very sad so many are searching for love and it seems out of reach. But, you have so many giving their opinion because they’re in a relationship. One thing they have in common is “Be open to stepping outside the box, especially when it come to dating outside your race.” 🤔 I’ve thought about this comment over and over because I wanted to be fair to myself and honest in my response. Although, we have or at some point have had a list of criteria when choosing a mate I don’t believe it dictated what race we are attracted to. I don’t think you can control who you are attracted to. This is an emotion whether drawn by comfort, trust or some other kind of uniqueness that makes us us🤷🏾♀️ I make no excuse for it. However, I find it fascinating that 99.9% of the people, if not all, who I know and who always provide this advice are with someone of the same race. 🤣 It’s funny how everyone in a relationship has an opinion. Were you this vocal when you were single? I was told statistics show there are as many men searching for a relationship as women. Where’s the disconnect? Because, if you have all these single ass people searching for love then it shouldn’t be so hard to connect. IJS.....
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